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Originally Posted by peaches100
Hi Hunny,
So are you saying that the secure relationship or attachment relationship is actually the process itself of meeting over time in a safe way? Rather than something to be achieved (an end result)? Sorry if i misunderstood. it's early, and i can be dense at times. 
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Yes!
Maybe at the end of therapy I will then say: "It was something to achieve", but I'm not looking from that view point, as yet.
Peaches, your questions are thought provoking and bring a kind of clarity to the process.
Thanks,
Hunny