I know can obsess over things a ltl. I try not to. And yes maybe he dsnt want ppl to know yet. That's feasible. I sent him a message about it and he said he told his dad and one good friend so that is a good start right. I wld hope he's not married or with another woman that wld be very hard on me to find I was the other woman. I had one relationship that my bf cheated and it was horrible for me. I think that's why the secrecy thing is important to me. I don't want it to be one of those relationships. I wld end it immediately if I find it is. I am feeling a ltl better though. The rest is time. I need to give it time. Than you guys for your input.