Seeker your body was telling you something. Maybe it was getting this man out of your system. next time you See the Janitor tell him you are sorry for the mess But really were not sick. You were just getting rid of an ex boyfriend and had to dump him somewhere appropriate.
Some people Know that list as the Ben Franklin list. It is said that when The declaration of Independence was being debated Franklin would often employ that list to help himself make decisions. I use i a lot when I can't make up my mind.