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Aug 22, 2009, 05:03 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2009
Location: Maryland
Posts: 91
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Originally Posted by lynn P.
Thank you for the reply Scotlandskye - I think it might be tricky if word spreads and other guys start talking - but that's up to you.
This got me thinking - that guys have casual sex all the time but as women, we're afraid of getting a bad reputation(slut/hate that word) or worried about getting emotionally attached. I think if a women feels like having sex with no strings then she should go ahead, as long as she's being safe. This was an interesting thread and it's a good sign that you're in control of who you want to be with. Good luck. 
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Lynn you are welcome! Thanks for replying....You do have a point there...something to think about
Yes this is an interesting thread and kind of glad that I did post it and is interesting to see what others have to say and what they think about it. I was thinking along the same lines as you! That guys have casual sex all the time and it is ok but women if we do it it isn't ok and it is frowned upon more. We tend to think of ourselves as sluts/*****s (hate those worse also) I know that we are more emotional then men and tend to fall easily and want the feelings, the romance the whatever....But what if you just want the sex, the passion, the whatever it is you crave? Because we are women does that me we should think about it more and worry that it makes up bad? I can't stop thinking about it for some reason. I'm usually the shy quiet one. But you know I like this boldness, this assertiveness, and for once NOT being afraid to say what I want and NOt feel bad about it. I can't even begin to explain the feeling. Now if I can get him to believe that I can walk way and that I would be the FIRST woman to walk away from him Told him if he was so sure that I would, then let me prove him wrong. Maybe he is afriad that I will walk away???
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