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MY bad! Obviously misunderstood....lol...(that's what I get for trying to be responsive here as I'm trying to pack for my move...lmao).

Bravo for your assertiveness, awareness and understanding of what you know you want for yourself. I have faith that with such self-structure all will go just fine for you....so long as your partner is equally willing.

I honestly believe there is nothing wrong with desiring casual sexual encounters. It is our human nature to have these physical desires, yet we fight them due to our cultural hangups & social expectations. Blegh...lol.
So long as we use caution, are mutually concenting there is no reason why both genders cannot persue this pleasure equally without any repercussions.
Granted, there are many who require the emotional bonding...equally fine. To each their own....yet, still, the "free-minded" seem to still have that stereotype label applied to them, regardless. Unfair, but reality.

Btw...There are many men-*****s out there, as well as female horn-dogs....roflmao. All depends on who's casting the judgements, I suposse.
Personally....it's all good.....so long as whoever is exploring their's seriously practices safely with high regard to respecting the realities of what carelessness CAN create.

Happy trails to you. I wish you the best.

Shangrala