Sorry I guess that I read your post wrong. IMO I think that times have changed somewhat, and the sterotype with women being called a slut has changed. Personally I see nothing wrong with casual sex. I have been like this before after my husband and I split up. Even though my ex and I didn't click we did still had sex. And just let me say that I about went nuts not getting it after the split. LMAO it's so true. I even had a buddy. lmao I had no desire to be emotionally involved because I was still dealing with the pain from my breakup. No disrespect to any man reading this, but I was doing to men what they do to woman. Not that I'm implying that all men do this, but I have seen a lot of it. I didn't just sleep with anyone though. I do remember one time this guy gave me a ride home from the bar. He thought he was going to get some, which in my mind he wasn't. He had been buying me drinks all night. Well anyways right when he dropped me off there was another guy waiting at my door for me. Talking about someone being pissed that guy was really pissed. During that time I always had one coming and one going. I could tell you more stories, but that might end up being a book. I will say that even though I was hurting I was having fun at the same time.