Well, it is time to make a plan. The first thing an emotional abuser will do is isolate the person they are victimizing is to isolate the person from the people who care and love the victim. This is how they keep the victim stuck. They learn all your vulnerabilitis so they can learn to exploit them at the right moment. But we here at pc are here to help. You are not alone. Please keep reading and writing and asking for support. I know you feel jealous about the other women, but after a bit of charm, my experience has been finding out the guy is marrif then the abuse starts. I met the gf once, turns out he did not treat her any better. Love, nuckingfutz