I'm sure anyone who has been sexually abused, don't care to discuss that, and may take a lot of time, therapy also to survive the nightmare.
Being middleaged, a life of stress, etc. I can do without and it doesn't even bother me.
There is more to life than just sex, even though it is a biological and evolutionary thing our brains have been wired for.
For those that enjoy and/or need it, that's fine, but always be sure to engage in safe sex, protect yourself and/or consenting partner from Aids,STD's and unwanted pregnancies.
Take care now,
DE