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eskielover · Aug 23, 2009, 07:23 PM

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Is there anyone at all in your life to help out with the farm and horses?

Just me, I left my husband in California almost 2 years ago (after 33 years of marriage....last 12 were basically separated in the same house).....needed to have peace in my life & with him, it was nothing but fighting because I wasn't willing to tolerate his crap anymore. He had actually come to KY the first Christmas to spend it here with my daughter who came also.....She only stayed a few days that she had off work....I kicked him out after 2 weeks.....I just could't stand it anymore. It was a good thing he wasn't here when I got the letter from the IRS about the back taxes he messed up on & that he hadn't done anything about it when they sent him the first letter a year before

Given the option of having him around or taking care of the farm myself....think I will stick will caring for the farm myself. I could never go back to living with him....looking back, I can't imagine how I did it for all those years.....well, I really didn't that was why my career was so important to me...it was my escape.

Unfortunately there isn't enough $ left over at the end of the month to hire any help......so I have become pretty good at almost everything that needs fixing.

I really have a lot of sorting out to do with therapy....wonder if she is going to want to bother with me & all the crap....not really serious stuff though.....just anoying.