Hi Bill,
sorry you've been having a hard time. Have you told your doctor about your ED. Ask your doctor to do a full blood work up especially for your prostate and testosterone levels. It's well known that being depressed can put a damper on a person's sex life and so can some meds. There's also alot of anxiety that builds with lack of sexual performance which exacerbates the problem further.
I wanted to mention and this may not be an issue at all for you - do you watch internet porn sites? The reason I ask is, I volunteer answering questions in the Q&A section of this website and there have been so many questions regarding erection problems from men watching porn - it can cause desentization problems where men have difficulty with sex in real life. Honestly it can potentially(not all the time) ruin a person's sexual desire.
I think you should also cut out the alcohol and marijuana. try not to feel discouraged or become too up tight about this because it will worsen the situation. It's important to feel relaxed when having sex. Best of luck and be sure to request measuring your testosterone levels. Best of luck to you.
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