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Dwayne61 · Aug 24, 2009, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by katie14

I think a friendship is good to let go of when it's not working for you anymore. If a friendship begins to feel like work or you begin to feel like it's more onesided then it's time to move on. It is far more important to surround yourself with people who are supportive that you can rely on to help you get through the rough spots in life. If you have to worry whether she is going to be there for you or not because of past baggage she is bringing to the table..time to move on...it's not ok for people to use more energy than you have to give. Good Luck

Thanks katie14,

It seems that in a lot of ways our friendship was always one sided. Such as I would be waiting for a few weeks at a time for her to contact me. I do believe that friends should help each other get through the rough spots. I had told her more than once that if she was ever in the hospital that I wanted to be there for her. Then when I was there for her when she was in the hospital, it seems like I was a bother to her.