I often feel that t is trying to get rid of me (he's not- we have talked about this at length- one of my many issues!!). He's a CBT and when I initially presented he gave me an estimate of 16 sessions... 40 sessions on and I'm still there, with no end in sight. I dont think he saw me and my issues coming!

He does occassioanlly say "Confused, we are on session 39 and you are *still* worrying about me discharging you", but he appreciates that I have a complex mix of problems (including BPD), and is incredibly patient and understanding but i still feel like every session he wants to get rid of me, despite him telling me that he has no intention of discharging me. People change/get better at different rates- there can't be a set amount of time for everyone.

If you can I would talk to T about how this comment made you feel- sometimes they say things and it comes out wrong- just like us. COuld there have been a misunderstanding in what T was trying to say?