Wow true1, I really, really like this post. It resonates strongly with how I see true love; being completely present without mental intrusions. Relationships need to be founded on truth and love, or else the mind will get in the way. Honesty before love is the only way.
If you have time, check out a post I recently made on my blog. It coincides perfectly with your post. I would absolutely love to know your thoughts about it.
The Spiritual Man - My Vows
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...and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.
Oneness