What I have been doing in this thread in a very long winded kind of way.....is say that...

For me...I don't see the ability to Love "unconditionally" as a person by person emotional distinction..

You either are or not...

If you don't it (Love) will always have some conditions at some level...like pregnancy in a woman...if she is pregnant then her foot cannot be "not pregnant"...

I have four children and my Love for them has changed over time..I don't see Love as an unchangeable force but one that expands and contracts over time and expereince according to the host...me....

Other than those few moments gifted to me that I explained above,,I have not given unconditional Love...but I have been the recipient of it...

From my Dogs....

Lenny