TimeforSleep- I definitely understand what you are going through. I'm in a little rut with the ladies myself. I'm 25 and am actually a pretty good looking guy and I'm tall. There's no reason I should be in a rut. But you know what? It's ALL mental. Girls like guys that are confident. Looking the role of a confident guy is half the battle. What works for me is smiling. Try smiling at everyone you encounter. If they look back then say hello. Don't walk with your head down. Look like you really are enjoying your life and people will naturally be encouraged to talk to you and approach you. It really doesn't matter what you look like. I hope this helps...Also, a GREAT book to read is by Sean Stephenson called "Get off your Buts". Sean Stephenson is 3 feet tall and confined to a wheelchair but has no problems attracting good looking women. He gives a lot of tips on how to live life to the fullest and how to be more confident. He has a very contagious smile and really enjoys life. Definitely worth reading!