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Aug 25, 2009, 02:04 AM

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I am going to try and get the spare room cleaned up and maybe move into it and just quit trying to make it up to him. I'm pretty fed up with his neglect and indifference.

Good move. No, EXCELLENT move.

Phil is never going to accept it if he hasn't by now. I know you know that, and I also know it makes you sad. But you need to put that energy you expel on him into your own healing.

They're HIS pigheaded issue, sweeties.

Even though I know it hurts you deeply, his hangups/stubborness/whatever you call it are getting in the way of him opening up his heart.

Have you thought about why he won't listen to you? Maybe his ego is bruised because, as "the manly husband" he can't fix you? There is a reason he won't listen. Maybe if you can figure that out, it will help you tolerate him as you prepare to hang out as roomies.