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Aug 25, 2009, 05:59 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2009
Location: Suffolk
Posts: 99
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My fiance of a year and a bit lives in florida and i live in suffolk, england. We have seen each other a total of 20 days so far in our around 3 yr first friendship then relationship. I have to say i can get the same way as you sometimes and get so depressed about the fact that hes there not here with me that it just upsets us both to talk, so we take time out. We are in almost constant view of each other on webcam when he is not working. (I am on disability here and we both have problems, but share severe anxiety, social anxiety and depression mainly.) When we get too down we stop trying to make ourselves talk and making it worse by arguing or getting angry and take time out, we leave the cam on but he will go and watch tv accross the room and i will usually do the same or talk to my friends or do housework, anything. We are still in contact, still together, taking comfort in each others prescence but not compounding a problem we cant actually solve overnight.
Im sorry some of the time you have had has been marred by becoming ill at the same time, i was quite severely physically ill for a few days last time my fiance stayed but even so we still had as good a time as we could unspolit by anything else. You are fighting so much to be together, dont let it push you further apart, always remember why you love each other and that love is worth working for. Be good to each other, neither can solve this alone.
Take care 
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