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Old Oct 16, 2003, 07:47 PM
bluesky bluesky is offline
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Member Since: Oct 2003
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Hi,
I was stalked and harassed for years and had to move house recently.
I thought moving would solve the problem but one family member
who was also stalked since 15 years old has PTSD and is now diagnosed with depression. Obviously moving wasnt a quick fix and we
should have moved sooner. I feel depressed because as the parent
I should have realised what an awful effect this creep who we
had never socialised with has had on our lives. The system let
us down (courts, police etc - hard to prove what was going on
in court - needed independent witnesses and videos etc). How do I help my young family member
get her life back? The doctor has prescribed anti-depressants for
her and wants her to go to counselling. Life is not fair. There are so many evil people out there. The
man who targeted us lied about all the things he was doing to us
and he got away with it. I think he wanted access to my daughter
(he asked me to send her to his home when he moved in near us) and I said no. Now I think a lot of this was payback because I stood between
him and my daughter. Or was he just jealous that we had a happy
family and he wanted to destroy us?
This went on for years. The police said it could be evil intent.
His wife was in on it too. They destroyed my daughters feeling
of safety in our own home and her studies at Uni are all messed up.
I wonder if life will ever be the same again. I now mistrust most
people, especially middle aged men.
Bluesky