There are a lot of positives, people are willing to listen and help in what way they can.

The not so positives if you do upset someone and you don't know it and they just start to yell at you and all you want to know is what happened. With help from mods most of this gets worked out.

As for do I feel safe posting, not really, I have posted some things for support and either had them totally ignored, so then I feel maybe I was wrong in the posting of it. Or I have had people (not in the post but either in chat or though PM) tell me either I don't belong or that I shouldn't be posting, so then it takes me forever to get to where I feel safe even saying I am struggling. I am starting to try to reah out again though posts.

Thanks for this post Fuzzy it really helps to see how others feel.

OVERALL this site is wonderful and I LOVE coming here!