I too have the same experiences with people. I do nothave any problems making friends in Philly where I lived for 45+ yrs. I have relocated to FL for 14 yrs and have not formed any relationships with women here. I believe I am just too blunt with people . Do you have that trait? I am so happy to have my Northern friends who I visit frequently. WHen I am there I am so happy and busy that when I come back to FL I am depressed.