Such a hard situation. ((((((((((((Multipixies))))))))))))) I'm so sorry you are having to figure out what to do here. It's such a fine balance, between trying to get peace, and trying to ensure that you have a place to live in the long term.

I want so much for your husband to open his eyes and really see, but I don't know that he has the capability or that he will have the capability in the near future.

I am in a situation that is different but hard. How do we know what is the best decision in the long term? I really struggle with seeing past this moment. I have never been able to see a future and so my decision making skills are hampered by that.

Sometimes I think if I make this decision then things would be so much better, but I don't know how to get there and I don't really know if it will be a good decision in the long run. I also struggle with seeing 50 gazillion sides of things and that makes it even harder.

I don't know if you struggle with that sort of thing too, but if you do, I understand.

I wish so much for peace for you multipixies. We are here for you as much as we can be. Please take gentle care throughout all of this.