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Aug 26, 2009, 10:32 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Colorado
Posts: 9,092
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I agree with the others on this one. This isn't at all easy to go through - give yourself credit you're going through a LOT.
So please, try to take care of yourself... shower, I know eating can be hard but try to do as best you can with it. Maybe taking some vitamin pills too if you can't eat a lot might help because then you're giving your body the essential nutrients it needs  Maybe some juices too because they're easier to handle and still give you some blood sugar.
Take a shower or bath. Try to enjoy the warmth, if you like warm showers :P
Then, go find some clothes you like and put them on. The favorite ones in your shelf. And if you really can't find one, maybe even go find something in the stores that makes you feel good about YOU. If it makes you feel better to make up the "bags under your eyes" - do it, but remember that those will go away when you're less stressed and get more sleep *and yes I think this WILL happen in time*
Most important, pick one happy activity that you like, or used to like to do... and do it. Just for you. Or try to. Pamper yourself a little, you deserve and need it right now.
sending loads of hugs, please keep us updated, I'll be thinking of you
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