My parents are divorced, I live with my mom though I have a much better relationship with my dad.

So when I was 18 I went to college X and dropped out, well for a lot of reasons. When I was 19 I went to college Y - the local community college. After dropping out, I thought hard about what I wanted to do with my life, and settled on engineering. However, as I remembered quickly math is not my forte, I dropped to a less math intensive route, and decided on food science, which is basically the chemistry that goes into food production.

I then transfered to college Z, large state university, in March. Uh oh, big problem, turns out I suck at chemistry too. I switch to linguistics (spanish minor), but I don't tell my parents. Why? Because I've changed my major probably over ten times, and they are starting to get fed up with me.

The only reason I didn't do linguistics from the beginning is because I know there are no jobs with a bachelor's in it, and my parents are career-focused. I don't know what to do, people always say it's never as bad as you think it will be to tell them the truth, and I think these people have never met parents like mine.

I am so stressed about this, especially since I live at home. I'm also super stressed I won't be able to find a job, and my only hope is being nearly fluent in Spanish will help me get something.

I feel like such a failure and a letdown because I always had the best grades, I was supposed to be the scientist, I was supposed to be someone. I feel stuck between languages, the only thing in my life I've ever been competent at and the thing everyone thinks I'm good at.