I'm seeing a family member tomorrow that I've only seen twice in 16 years or so. We're trying to rebuild a relationship but ...so far, I've kept my emotional distance, being aware that we are both strangers to each other. But I'm worried that I may be coming across as cold. At the same time, worried more may be expected of me, my being the elder one! Any advice about what I should be doing here would be greatly appreciated.

Peace,
Julia
xox