Hi folks,

Good thread topic.

OK, it can be a bit addictive, but IMHO that's because it's good.

In 3d I have the unfortunate habit of getting too psychologically deep with new acquaintances and then they kind of attach onto me, like I'm a saviour of some kind. Relationships get intense, and I know it's because I encourage the deep conversations. Then there is all the guilt of detaching, or at least gently cooling down again. It's a pattern.

It's not like that here. We can get as heavy as we like and others here can take it or leave it. It's a brilliant dynamic, and I think it's because we are a meeting of minds without living next door to each other.

I think we come here because we like it. Right now, my partner is in the other room watching TV and she's not having to listen to my problems. That's got to be a plus.

It's good for everybody that we can come here and it's a d*** sight cheaper than therapy! Long live PC.

Cheers, M