I think it really depends on what you're looking for. When I was 25, my T was around 60 - she seemed a bit too old for me, and I didn't connect with her for various reasons. Now, I'm 33, and my T is around 50 - she's somewhat maternal but also seems more on my wavelength, if that makes any sense. We are creating a good connection.

My friend, on the other hand, wanted someone she could really relate to - she's 34, and she found a T who is 27. She was unsure at first if that would be too young, but she went and ended up loving her, so it's working for her.