For me, I really had no choice at the time. I was very phobic of driving over bridges and he was the only T not over a bridge. Back then it was him or no one. So whatever age he was, it was going to be him. I had no idea how old he was when I went to my first appointment. I think I just found that we matched well. I can't honestly say if it was because of his age similarity or not...it was just a good fit. And the "good fit" is what mattered most.