oh. That sucks how painful that this guy is being so rude to you. It would be good if men explained themselves but some just don't realise they should. I say maybe try to move on and show him what if is missing out on. Write real positive happy messages in your facebook status. Get on with things but also have a cry cos if he was your first boyfriend then its its so painful and horrible and but don't let him know your in pain. Hope this is the right advice. And hugs hope it gets easier.