Shang..be brave...you know how much you've done for me..
YOU deserve this move..and so does Roxi..you both do.
Be strong..know that everyone here is rootin for you to head in that van and drive off. Know that we're happy for you, and you need this.
Change is never, and will never, be easy. But in the long run, it'll all be good, and you'll know you made the right choice. Be happy about this..and you aren't an emotional wreck, we all are, ;D.
Love you lots