Tree- I just read a response you gave in the Always Starting Over thread. You said that you started being honest with your t no matter if you sounded confused or how it sounded or how he reacted. Something like that The gist was that you have to be honest about how you feel or you just dont feel safe and connected. That was how I felt today. I felt that I just might as well be honest. I felt safe enough that she would be there for me and listen. I felt very connected to her and I said it again about the disconnect with the desk etc and we talked about my feelings about a lot of things b/c of the coldness of the desk.

Anyway, yes, I felt it was a good session, I dont know what I would have done if it wasnt And she did encourage me to call her over her vacation. What a relief!