Pardon me for asking...but who is "her" kris? I have been reading your posts but obviously I have missed some important things.
I have been dx'd with DID since 1994 and I was fortunate to find a pdoc who not only specialized in DD but was on the forefront of a lot of the research that was going on in the late '80's regarding alters and pro******g and ways to help clients. She flat out said psych meds don't work for people with DID, medications that help with some of the other issues like depression and anxiety she believes to be helpful if one is suffering from those. And she even uses those very sparingly. She never used the word "cure" in all the years I have known her. She still does my meds but her colleague who works with her is now my T. We get along very well but being so experienced in working with people who have alters neither of them takes any shenanegans from me or my alters. Sometimes we don't like what they suggest but over the years have found it to be very useful in life. I hope the new T you wrote about will have an opening soon.

Thinking about you and caring,