i think your sig quote says it all.... i am almost at that point. I can sense that this is what this shove of T's is all about. and now that she is pushing (like the sun pushing the bud) i am the bud going NOOOOOOOOOOOO! and waiting for that moment (that all buds instinctually know but still resist) when it goes NOOOOOoooooooooooooOK. the image i keep getting is a person pulling on the bit of a mule who's got it's feet dug in and knees locked, head bowed in refusal. I like the bud one better.

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Bud WIIIIZZZZ Errrr. loved that comercial with the frogs (during the Olympics some time back).