Aloha All!
I've noticed that no one has mentioned the one thing that some people call the "Great Equalizer". Especially when used to save marriages.
I've actually read in other forums that lots of people (both guys and gals) use masturbation as at least some sort of a release for them. Some couples have good enough communication that they can have their spouse either do oral or with their hands as a form of 'intercourse replacement'.
I know that solo sex isn't the same as making love with your partner, but lots think it is better than cheating on their spouses because they do love their spouses and think that when they DO make love, it was well worth the wait.
Some even incorporate sex toys that do the "work" for them. For gals, a simple vibrator usually is enough and for guys? You'd be surprised at the advances the sex toy industry has made as far as male sex toys go. So a search for them and take a look, nothing wrong with it at all. Especially if it saves what would be considered a good marriage otherwise.
OK? OK!
Old Geezer (at 54!) 
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Happily married for 30 years. 3 Children. Lived for 25 yrs in Minnesota then we moved to Hawaii. Have lived here for 20+ yrs so far. Perm. Disabled since 2005 from 3 failed disc surgeries. All started in March 1997. I managed to cry/suffer for 9 yrs as an accountant until I had to "throw in the towel" on a 30 yr Accountant career.
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