What about calling her once and asking if you could have a brief (15 minute) face-to-face to see if you think you guys might be compatible? Maybe ask her if that would be possible so that if it doesn't seem to be a good fit, you can continue to look?

I know for me though, I wouldn't be able to be present during a face-to-face, even if it was longer or shorter so I don't know if this would work for you. It seems to take me many times meeting a person to be able to be present enough to remember any of the meetings outside of knowing I went.

I can understand why you are so eager though. It's exciting to think that there is help out there when we so desperately want it. Good on you for pursuing it. Please keep us posted