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Originally Posted by Melbadaze
Fallen, Interesting, I'm not consiously aware of fear of change as I am desperate for change...but there are times when I feel resistant and that must be a fear of something, but I don't think I can put into words like ABC what it is I am afraid of...oh but then again, when some of my coping mechinism's have stopped working like they once did, I find that rather disorientating...kinda like, what the hell, this worked for me yesterday, why doesn't it do nothign today? and then it gets to feel like a dying of something and thats uncomfortable and wierd..until the "new" whatever fills that particular void kicks in, then that feels nicccccccccce  |
I don't think I was consciously aware of the fear side, either. All I knew was that something inside of me was resisting, and it made no sense to me. Then I read this, and what the author said made so much sense, it felt like the skies had opened up, and I was struck with a realization. I think there always is a fear of change, and most people don't realize it...I didn't, but it does make sense to me, regardless of how absurd the concept may seem in some situations.