Hi Doc: I was interested in your comment about performing an autopsy on your relationship.

I did that in my first marriage and do it every day in this one.

I think it's because we need to know where things went wrong, where the true blame lies, and who is really responsible for what. It's confusing because after a break up our minds aren't working properly anyway. Maybe we just want to find a way to refrain from making the same mistakes, choose the wrong people. Who knows??

Keep your chin up, keep analyzing everything if you need to, and stay busy.

WIL