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Originally Posted by hangingon
Hugs to you Deli!
I love that your pdoc shared some things about himself with you. It shows that he also trusts you with his information.......there is alot to be said for that.
He really does care for you......
My T has shared a few things with me as well and I sit there and can't say anything....I have all kinds of questions in my mind that I want to ask in response, but I'm afraid to ask...she has said to me before is there anything else you want to know, I said no....she said are you sure.....I said yep.....of course I lied, I felt as if I were to cross some boundary if I did, even if she did say I could ask her things about her...
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Hangingon- Yes- it does so show that Deli's pdoc trusts her with the info and that he feels somewhat close. Its so so true.
I could have written this post you wrote. I am so so so glad you wrote this. If there is anything that comes into my mind after a session its what I should have asked when my t discloses something. I never know what to say and Im silent, too. I want to ask a million questions but in the moment I get stunned into silence.
I wanna get much better at asking bad-boundry questions when she shares something...I want to force myself to ask whatever is on my mind that I want to know...she doesnt have to answer...but at least I'll know what she wont answer
