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I so relate to your feelings..and I think its because I was raised in an atmosphere of "don't air your dirty laundry..." and boy has it cost me....but don't think for a minute that focussing on the problem makes it worse...it's essential

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Hi P,

I just want to second Mac D's post. It is essential to deal with this stuff, at some point in your life. Sooner is better than later IMHO.

Cheers, M