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But the REALITY is that we actually ARE part of their lives
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Good point!
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not the biggest, or most important
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???? NOT a good point, lol.
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I want my t to pine...but she wont pine....I'll pine and be sad and want her to care in the way I need her to care
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I always tell my T that I have difficulty with the fact that I care about him more than he cares about me. I hate it when the reality of the therapeutic relationship slaps you in the face!
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and want her to nurture and give me more time....and decide to get rid of the desk....and come and sit next to me.....and tell me she missed me.........
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So she said no to the time extension? How about going an extra session in the week? If she's not giving up her desk, I wouldn't let her get off that easy. I think you should request to have your own desk - why should she be protected by wood and you not? I'm sure you'll get this one=) I told my T that I was going to miss him before a vacation awhile ago and it was met with silence. Que the crickets, please. Needless to say, I haven't told him this since.
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I wish I felt whole and didnt need a freakin therapist......
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HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!! This sucks! However, if we couldn't talk about our therapists vacations, desks, and other therapy oddities, life might just be boring. Just trying to look on the bright side=) Hang in there!