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Originally Posted by _sabby_
(((((((((( Vickie ))))))))))))
I'm sure many of us have been in the position of giving our unconditional love to someone only to have it kicked and stomped on. How painful that is.....so very painful. I myself have been in that position, but I found that once I was able to work through the pain, my love still was there for the one who stomped on it. I just loved them from a distance and protected myself from more pain.
sabby |
I have experienced this and dang it hurts, And what hurts about it is the love cannot be stopped. . theres expectarions that cause the pain. A hope for a respose in kind to lght a greater fire. ..
some acknowledhement or return. So It is not unciditional love.
I give very litttle unconditional love . if I give something anonymously and no one ever knows what I did Thats close to what the conditions might be for what unconditional love may be. Love without acknowlegemet .and be okay with that.
My dog did not care what i did or said to her . I gave her food and water and a tennis ball and . that is what bonded her to me .
I wish it were unconditional. love she showed me .. but alas ...she had others...
and did what ever it took to nurture the chow...
Patricia