Hmmm... I've been accused of various things, and I accuse myself of worse, but no one to my knowledge has told me that "woundedness" is my identity. Were they to do so, it would probably make me sad, and it might also make me laugh at the same time.

Fuzzybear, I can't unsay hurtful words thrown at you. Yet I can offer you affirming words and hugs you can pile on top of the hurtful ones.

Were we able to look to the world beyond the senses, I suspect we'd see a topsy-turvy realm where what was so important in this world would be of little or no account, and among the residents of that realm would be a Royal Personage, beaming care and love - Fuzzybear.