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Originally Posted by phoenix7
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((((P7)))))
Oh boy do I know this sentence from my t.
How we treat ourselves? Its sad b/c why is there so much hate and anger and what the heck did we do wrong?
we listened when they told us we were bad and we still le tthe voices talk to us - we have to learn not to - we have to listen to ourselves an not the voices formthe past.
When I have such strong SI impulses sometimes I tell myself what did I do so wrong to want to hurt myself so badly? Would I do that to someone I love? Why cant I love myself more? 
see answer above lol its hard ot love yourself when you ahve hated yourself for so long... but we have to learnt to do that - its hard but we can do it and we have to learn to belive that we were not at fualt that children are not to blame for what adults do to them....
You so deserve all good things and to be happy and loved (end quote)
and so do you   |
P7- Do you ever feel like you know it intellectually but when feelings come up being loving to myself is almost impossible?
Im not at fault and neither are you and we were hurt as children. And we were very sad children that shut down at some point. But I still feel like I am that hurt child and it takes such mental energy, effort and restraint not to act out and tell myself I DO love that hurt, crying little child who wants so so badly to be happy and have a peaceful life.
(((((P7)))))