I will go back for at least one more session. I will probably bring up what she said. She might have been trying to say that he had a hard time too, (which he did) but he just didn't experience what I did after he left. It seemed like she was saying that because he had a bad experience too, his opinion that I should have moved home was somehow more valid (it was all in the tone of her voice). I see it as he didn't experience what I did and hence his opinion was not valid for my circumstance. But I will bring it up (or try to ). I just feel all twisted up inside, depressed and alone which I know is making this whole thing harder. Thank you for all of your responses and I know that you are probably right about her just trying to show that he had a bad experience too, and this post probably just restated what I already said. I'm not trying to argue, I just feel alone and need to vent.