I'm so, so sorry. My bf went threw this with his son. He has him back now. I would just like to share with you that you really need to becareful with what you sign, because with my bf they tried to get him to sign him away. (adoptation) My bf never signed it. I'm not sure if they have a lawyer for your child over there, but if they do you want to keep informed with that lawyer. The childs lawyers in the US has a lot of say where the child will go. Another thing that you want to maybe do, is make sure your cubbards are so stocked with food for your child. I'm not trying to imply that you don't feed him, so please don't get that impression of me. When my bf went threw this they checked everything from top to bottom. Just make sure everything is completely full with your child, they are real sticklers on that. Whatever they tell you, don't give up. I know it will be very hard, but just don't give up. Fight to the end. If you would like to know more about some more things, just send me a pm.