((((Multipixie9))))

Yes, you are right. It is not all your fault. It takes two. Yes, it is difficult when you are dealing with so much. But that was not your fault either. Funny how it all falls on us the aftermath of what happened so long ago.

But you are not a liar. You are not making anything up. What you know to be true is true. Sometimes there is no getting anyone to understand. Especially if they have not walked in our shoes.

When things are done in secret and covered up so well that there is no way to let anyone see and it is only your word, it does make it tough for us to get others to believe or understand.

But here, you are believed and validated for everything you went through and feel. You are never ridiculed or put down for what you feel and you are heard. You are important just for being you.

Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts.

dps