I know that there is no right or wrong answer, Tree. I'm just so unsure of myself and I do agree with you and kim. I'm just not "there" yet and it's punishing myself if I don't call. You know how it is because you call right after a session. I am going to try to wait a few days, though because something is going on in T's life that I know about so I can call after that, and say "congratulations" at the same time. She knows I know about it, so it will be okay to call for that.