I guess I'll post this even if I'm afraid of someone will say, like he's a stalker.

A guy who's been next to me on the computers at the library (the past few months) talked to me about 3 weeks ago. He seemed nice enough, and since I need new friends, I wanted to give him a chance. I only gave him my secondary e-mail account, as well as my first name only.

Already he's pushing all the wrong buttons with me! He knows I have a boyfriend, but he seems to want to want go out for coffee. He also does stuff like sending an e-mail asking me to send an e-mail, instead of just WAITING for me to reply to the most recent message. (There's only been 2 or 3). One message said, "Thanks for replying. LOL" Another was one giving me his cell number, saying, "Call me." It's disconcerting to get attention like this. I wonder if he sat at that station on purpose all this time.

Has this ever happened to anyone or someone know? I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but he's not making it easy. Coming on way too strong, especially for someone he only just met. All of this has made me appreciate my boyfriend even more, for his subtlety and acceptance of me. I mean, this guy at the library told me stuff like, "You shouldn't drink coffee everyday." Who is HE???? Thing is, I like going to that library since it's close to home. It's convenient to check out my books and use the Internet there. Staff is nice. I don't want to have to stop cause of him.

Yeah, he wanted to know where I live too, but I didn't tell him. My bf does know of him, in case he turns out to be a stalker or something. He's not the jealous type thankfully, because I'd like to have new friends. Gender doesn't matter, to me nor him. I see no reason why I shouldn't have male friends, as long as they are normal. LOL They DO exist, and he could be harmless. But maybe not...