Thread: Disclosing to T
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 01:17 PM
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I agree that it's great to be able to start right out and tell everything to your T. I spent a long time with my first T not being able to tell her much. I just couldn't. So like others have said, some people want to be open but are inhibited. Others like you can share right away.

Something about the way I am, which may or not be applicable to you. With other Ts, I told them my secrets soon, in the first few sessions. It was easy because they were still stangers to me so I wasn't embarrassed. I just blurted things out with no real FEELINGS. As time went on, I became more inhibited because I had a relationship with my T and I was afraid of what she would think. So, when I revisited those issues again, it was harder to tell her some things. I wasn't just reporting, I was feeling. I'm not saying this is what is happening to you, Blossom, but just wanted to throw it out as something to think about.