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Old Aug 30, 2009, 08:11 PM
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I'm sorry to hear all about what happened as an aftermath.
I'm questioning your boyfriend's loyalty because he was talking about marrying you, yet he left you after another emotional struggle. This doesn't seem like he knows how to help enough.
If you have a therapist are you able to talk about different issues in therapy?
Are you taking any medications to help your conditions?
Please try to stay safe. Use a chat line here on PC in the Support Room, call a confidential mental health number where you can vent and try to push through what hurts you emotionally. Even for that split second. It's not good to hurt yourself, but even more is how to prevent it.
How are you doing today?
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