In reference to laughter, I wrote this to my T last week......

I was sitting out in the waiting room before session the other night and both you and one of your colleagues had someone in your rooms and I could hear laughter coming from both rooms. I thought what it is the those two client's are doing to relax them so much where they can just laugh. They sounded at ease. (I wrote this after telling her what a lousy client I am)

Her response was something to this affect...
You are able to laugh about things that warrant laughter- your abuse, and your mother's denial of it, is not one of them. I continue to be impressed by your strength and resilience!
Be kind to yourself!

I often feel like the most boring client lol.....because I always hear laughter at points with other client's when I get there early. We have shared a smile together but laughter, can't recall that.
(This on top of most difficult, man she has her hands full with me)